Foreplay is like an appetizer to the main course. Sure, your medium-rare filet mignon will taste okay alone. And well, sex works just like food does. Sometimes, it can even be better than the sex itself. Here are 15 places to definitely stimulate during foreplay to make the grand finale taste extra yummy. Besides the normal parts of your body most often sexualized as erogenous zones, the area around your peepers can be just as sensual and sexual. Xanet Pailet, author of Living an Orgasmic Life , says the ears and earlobes are extremely sensitive for many people.
Think about the most magical hookup you've had. Does penetrative sex come to mind? Or is it something else—a deep conversation, a passionate kiss, or a totally different intimate act that happened before, after, or in place of penetration? Chances are it's the latter. In fact, many people consider foreplay the hottest part of sex. For one, you can think of foreplay as "sex acts that produce desire, arousal, and stimulation to get the body and mind ready for orgasm" aka something that helps build arousal towards an eventual climax or maybe penetration.
When done right, foreplay can even be better than sex. All that anticipation and teasing from getting handsy and mouthy builds up some delicious sexual tension, which is amazing for both you and her. And the more tension that builds up, the sweeter the release when you actually indulge in some P-in-V action. Get naked.
My partner and I have been together for two years now and we really know how to get each other off. The problem is that our sex life is like a race to the finish line. What even are the good foreplay activities these days?